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the rule. Three main themes emerged. Firstly, participants ex-
pressed concern that the rule took away a student’s right to
chose their own friends. Further, it was sometimes noted that
by taking away a fundamental freedom of choice schools would
be inadvertently encouraging conformity. Those who expressed
this concern did so in a manner suggesting that conformity was
an undesirable trait when associated with social functioning.
Another common theme involved the normality of rejection
throughout the course of one’s life. These participants sug-
gested that early school experiences in being rejected from
one’s peers somehow sensitized children to the routine experi-
ences of rejection they were destined to endure throughout their
lives. It is noteworthy that current developmental and social
psychological research demonstrates an almost universal ten-
dency for social rejection to diminish one’s self-esteem. Con-
trasting these societal norms with scientific research results
would likely lead to thought provoking and important discus-
sion. Thirdly, many participants suggested that as teachers they
simply do not have the time or energy to spend teaching chil-
dren prosocial skills related to inclusive play. Paley (1992)
noted concerns similar to those expressed by our participants in
her description of teacher reactions to the rule.
Ultimately, the lowest ratings occurred in response to the
question “How well do you think children will follow the
rule?” Thus, although teachers and those in teacher training
programs may feel play is important to development and may
even be willing to implement the rule, there are concerns about
students complying with the rule. This finding indicates that a
significant part of training and program planning must involve
ongoing discussions and strategies to address issues related to
student compliance. For instance, useful strategies may include
journals, role playing, and class meetings infused into class-
room activities.
The factor analysis revealed that training teachers to imple-
ment the “you can’t say you can’t play” rule must address two
distinctly different issues. In preparing teachers to implement
this program, it is critical that the significant role that inclusive
play has in enhancing social, emotional and cognitive devel-
opment be clearly communicated (the “Rule Importance” fac-
tor). In addition, the program must involve training and
on-going support to increase acceptance and perceive feasibility
of the “you can’t say you can’t play” rule (the “Rule Feasibil-
ity” factor). Specifically, teachers are likely to benefit from
training opportunities (e.g. via case studies, video vignettes,
modeling, observations) related to introducing the rule to stu-
dents, supporting students in understanding and practicing the
rule, dealing with problems that emerge as students struggle
with inclusive play, and assessing the progress of the program.
Overall, it is hoped that this research will stimulate optimism
about the effectiveness of strategies that teach prosocial skills
and empower teachers to feel competent integrating these skills
into the curriculum. A preventative approach that integrates
pro-social learning opportunities into daily school experiences
affords children the potential to maximize their learning ex-
perience at school and generalize these pro-social skills to
strengthen their social communities throughout their lives.
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